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my kids attended my wedding

November 18, 2007

i have a long commute

i know they say it’s not safe, but sometimes i just can’t help myself. when the day has been stressful . . . hell, sometimes just for fun . . . i think and drive.

i know, i know, a mind is a terrible thing.

i know this, but i use mine anyway.

whatever the drawbacks, it takes me to places both amazing and sublime. and tonight it took me back in time.

no need for a stainless steel car

no need to hit 88 mph

those of you who follow my blog know that i married into a ready made family, and i am frankly amazed at all the people who seem to view that as a bad thing.

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me, i don’t think so.

if i can be a total guy for a second, i’ll say benefit number one was missing the diaper years.

i will readily acknowledge that that also means i missed a lot of *firsts* that i’d rather not have, but i’m still kinda psyched about missing the toxic green poo era.

and in missing some of those firsts i gained some firsts that most parents never get.

my kids got to be present at my wedding.

they were there when i married their mom.

i’m not into polygamy, but i’ve often said i married 4 people that day. till death do us part, we are a family now. and we always will be.

it was cool standing up at the front of the church with my 4 year old son all dressed up to match me in his little suit.

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it was cool to see my daughters decked out as little grinning versions of their mom.

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it was cool that we all got to be there for that moment.

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it was just cool . . . and in the midst of all life’s crap it was cool to be able to remember that

2 Comments leave one →
  1. November 18, 2007 07:05

    What an awesome moment in time – thank you for sharing!

    I hope to one day renew our wedding vows so our daughter can be there and share in the joy of her parents being in love.

  2. November 18, 2007 09:30

    in the meantime you could just make out in front of them.

    kids just loooooove that mushy stuff

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